He loved her. She loved him. They were like soul mates. However, they had to bid adieu not for themselves but for the betterment of each other. Here’s a short story on Love, Breakup and Relationship –
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Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success. ~Henry Ford
This is an old progressive quote by Henry Ford. However, it seems the quote is only used in board rooms these days to motivate workers. Yes, the people who use this quote in the work space are seen staying aloof in their living rooms. Worst, they don’t even have time to see the changes in their partner, siblings, parents or their own kids. Forget being together they are not even close. Nobody has time to look beyond themselves.
This is not Togetherness….
Now a days we often come across people sharing videos on humanity on social media especially Facebook. I come across one on a daily basis where I see a little boy buys a slipper for a needy old man with his pocket money, a young bloke gives Rs. 4000 to an old vendor (his monthly income) simply because he thinks his passion of ‘Not to Give Up’ deserves a reward. Share a Smile, Share Happiness has become the new mantra in this fast paced world. However, though these videos get viral not many follow the lessons with the same enthusiasm with which they share on social media.
For me real togetherness is being with the needy and aiding them like one’s own family members. Then whether the needy is a poor boy who not just need food but also education or a rape/acid victim who needs your support to fight back the gender intolerance.
My nephew and niece are two notorious kids who cannot stop fighting with each other. Moreover, when they play with other kids our house become a big fish market where almost every kid yell in anger or cry in pain. However, a nest in the balcony of our living room changes everything for good.
Yes, a pigeon gave two eggs in our balcony in a hay like thing. It was not a proper nest and the kids were concerned for the baby pigeons that laid inside the eggs. Then began their conquest to keep the eggs safe, not just from outside world but also from the crow’s eye. They ensured that each of the kid’s keep an eye on the eggs and when the kids went to school, my sister and her neighbors ensured they kept an eye on them. This way not just the kids even the elder ones got together.
The real life incident got fresh in my eyes the moment I saw this beautiful video of Kissan which showcases the real story.
No wonder, Kissan feels that it is high time that we free ourselves from the bonds of technology to enjoy the real relationship between our kins and the real world.
The Design of Christian Sarkar and Vijay Govindarajan
$300 House is a project initiated by Christian Sarkar and Vijay Govindarajan. It all started through their blog post in Harvard Business Review and by reading the blog and watching the video, I witness many of the developing nations problems(not just housing but several others as well) including India’s vanishing off.
Read here to know more http://indiaopines.com/300-house-an-idea-that-can-change-lives-globally/
When it comes to getting snapped, I’m the one who constantly hides for cover whenever the camera is out. And if by any chance I am snapped than I start urging friends and relatives against posting my pictures on social networking sites. No wonder, we all dislike being photographed if we look hideous especially in a group photograph when the other not so good looking girl appears beautiful and emerges flawless in the same photograph. However, there are tricks to appear pictorial in front of the camera which I recently found out while experimenting one fine day in my closet. Perhaps these tricks on appearing photogenic would help you too.
Let’s face it, we women hate appearing chubby in any picture. Especially, the ones who have a slender body and a nice round face like me yet the picture shouts, “Deepti, you have a huge round plumpy face”. No wonder, the chubby cheeks would please my grandmom, aunts and uncles but when it becomes the focus of attention in a picture, it surely makes me lose my temper. I might be a nerve-wracking dilemma for you too. Just imagine you appearing like a Miss flabby in a group photo and the “Miss Grumpy” appearing “Miss charming”…Noooooo.
Out of this dilemma, my experiment with the camera, bestowed me with my first trick on appearing photogenic, which is…..
“Look Above the Camera Lenses.”
Yes, never stare directly at the camera lenses. Instead, always focus somewhat above the lens. When you tilt your head upwards, the light from the camera hits your face and eliminates any darkness or shadow. The pose also elevates the neck and makes your face appear leaner. If you have ever noticed Marilyn Monroe photographs closely, you’ll witness that she mostly gave her shots in a perfect camera angle. What’s more the lens ignores your double chin too and you appear great. In addition, for a slim upshot of your face, roll your tongue and touch the top of your mouth.
I always noticed that one side of my face in any photograph looked good while another appeared not so pleasing. So, the next trick to get rid of my lens phobia was to
“Picture the Good Side of the Face.”
Well, not only me but nobody has a perfect symmetrical face and so we always have the good side and the bad side of our face. The good side is the one from which the image seems to be quite pleasing. Try to enhance this good side. The partition of hair also plays a vital role in influencing the facial shape. So instead of standing straight in front of the camera fine-tune your hair and adjust yourself in certain angles to emerge gorgeous. For instance, if you have a big round face adjust your face three quarters towards the camera and you’ll actually see a cheekbone instead of a plump big face.
Next, I felt the way you stand, sit or lean matters a lot. So, the subsequent trick is to…
“Focus on Posture.”
A good posture can really dramatically enhance your emergence in front of the camera, making you appear more photogenic. Standing straight or sitting erect will make you appear alert and healthier too. Also, if you are in a group setting, you are ought to appear more striking than your stooping buddies. In addition, you do not have to hold your breath instead breathe normally. If you are worried about your bingo wings ( fat surrounding the armpit ) then placing your shoulders ahead a little with your hands on your hips just like the typical model poses can easily help you in eliminating those underarm bulges.
While browsing number of photographs in our friends album on Flickr, Picassa, Fb or any family album, we might come across one of those Pinky aunties or Miss Glamorous faking that smile. Now, although smiling for me is a bit difficult for a photograph still, as per my experiments all I could conclude was
While smiling, be as natural as you can. Never force a smile. An enforced smile appears unnatural and looks creepy however a normal natural smile appears warm and looks gorgeous. What’s more, it also enlightens your eyes and makes it emerge more beautifully. Try to smile in a three quarter style rather than smiling too big and exposing your gums and various inner slits.
How many times have your bro teased you that are looking plumpy and you blamed it on your clothes? Well, although he might have laughed thinking you are not accepting the fact. The truth is, the dress indeed made you look fatter. So, the last trick definitely is to
“Dress Correctly For a Photograph.”
Avoid wearing dresses with patterns as it may overwhelm you while dresses with horizontal stripes can make you look wide and fat. Instead, go for neutrals and solids. It works best with digital photography. Make sure you adorn only those colors that goes well with your complexion. In addition, avoid wearing red, white or black color dress while being photographed as digital cameras have issues with the color red while white and black offers too much of a contrast.
What I eventually realized that my picture earlier did not please me mainly because I thought I won’t appear good. However, the feel good factor while getting clicked not only accentuated the image but also adorned my appearance.
Its not about looks but being confident, spontaneous and enjoying the moment of being photographed.
And really, a good picture really brings a smile on the face and happiness in our heart even if its only for a mili second…